Xbox won’t let me report player harassing me

Hello, D23JJJJ. I'm Arturo, and I'll be glad to provide assistance with your inquiry today.

I'm sorry to hear you're having trouble reporting a player on the Xbox network.

Not only that, but you're experiencing this difficulty on an Xbox console, could you try reporting the player either by using a Windows PC or the Xbox app?

Windows:
“Press Windows logo key + G to open the Game Bar, and then select Xbox Social to open the widget.

Right-click on the gamertag that you're reporting, and then select Report.
If the person that you're reporting isn't on your friends list, you can use the search bar to find them by their gamertag.

Choose your category and reason for the report. Make sure that you choose the most accurate category, as this detail is important to ensuring Xbox Safety can investigate the issue properly.

Enter any additional details that you have under Add comment, and then select Report”.

Reference link:

https://support.xbox.com/en-SG/help/family-online-safety/enforcement/file-a-complaint > Windows devices.

Xbox mobile app:

“Open the Xbox app on your mobile device.

Select the Social tab at the bottom of the screen, and then select the profile of the player who's acted inappropriately from your friends list.
If the player isn't a friend, but they are someone whom you recently played in an online game with, we recommend filing the report from an Xbox console or Windows device.

If you know the player's gamertag, you can select the Search tab to find them and submit your report that way.
Select the More options (…) button, and then select Report.

Choose the correct category and reason for the report. Make sure to select the most accurate option from the list, as this helps Xbox Safety properly investigate the complaint.
Provide any additional info under Tell us more, and then select Report.”

Reference link:
https://support.xbox.com/help/family-online-safety/enforcement/file-a-complaint-on-xbox-app > Xbox app on mobile.

Furthermore, please refrain from sharing personal information, including email addresses, gamertags, etc.
As community users, we are not able to enter, report the player for you, or check your account information, and everything we comment can be seen by anyone on the internet.

I hope you find this answer helpful to your inquiry. However, I'll remain attentive to any other one you may have.

Regards,

Arturo.

The forums here aren't a way to report people, it's actually prohibited to call out people for things they do on Live. You did the right thing in filing a complaint, all you need to do now is
block communications and report him for the booting he's doing. Filing a complaint is the only for the Policy Enforcement Team to review the player in question.

You've done eveything you could. I'm sure that the enforcement team will look at your report

That doesnt help me at all. I was harassed first no matter what. If i had just reported it that doesnt take away the fact i was harassed. I was playing an online game minding my own business when this player started harassing me. Reporting it doesnt take
back the harassment i endured. Then i end up getting banned and not them. Thats ridiculous. I will not stand for a platform that allows someone to be harassed and then bans the person who was harassed.

So the decision was upheld and the reason is i reported a persons messages to much. Just to be clear i didnt report one message over and over agin the players continuously messaged me and mocked me about being banned and the person is the buddy of the person
who got me banned. So i got banned for harassment because i was reporting the person who was harassing me while i was still communication banned.