Xbox Series X and FM23 Totally Utterly Not fit For Purpose

I can't find one designed for series x controller. They are all for xbox one controller and don't fit series x controller properly.

so your NAT is showing strict?

As far as party chat, try these steps:

1) Clear persistent storage

2) Turn off your console, unplug all the cords connected to it, hold down the power button for 30 seconds

3) Plug everything back in, except for the Kinect

4) Turn on console

5) Go to controller, take out the batteries, hold down the power button on controller for 30 seconds

6) Put batteries back in, try party chat

Let me know what happens with that

yo, this is no biggie (hehe, I think I am so funny sometimes) have you tried any troubleshooting on the console before going all crazy and saying your going to ps4? Honestly, saying your going to ps4 is as believable as there being a real king kong...in
my honest opinion.

Yes, honestly last night I was so fed up and angry having tried everything i could find on the web I lost it. I've tried static IP's, all the nonsense like clearing persistent storage, disabling then reboot and enable upnp, I've tried port fowarding then
triggering with limited success (working party chat for one night then next it fails or works with titanfall but not battlefield or vice versa) my biggest problem to my knowledge is we have 2 xbox ones on the same network so when we try to join parties/games
it fails. Any knowledge would be helpful bc I've all but given up.

Is it it in properly? I remember when i got my Series X i had to really push the power cable in as the fit was so tight.I had to try the cable from my Xbox One S to see if that fitted & it did so i then tried the cable that came with my Series X again & it eventually fitted but it was a extremely tight fit.