Xbox online but can't do anything online (can't play anything or join parties) SOLVED

The past week I've been trying to solve an issue of Being online (xbox says it's all good and I'm connected and me not being able to use any games or apps or even sign into my account). I have since SOLVED the issue. My first issue was my NAT type said Unavailable.
So we tried a hard restart on the xbox as well as a router reboot. That didnt work at all. Next we tried clearing cache and a restart and that did nothing. After being transferred around to different supports we figured it was an internet/router issue after
they reset stuff odn their end also. So i let them go and after 3 hours of xbox support help and a night of rest later I thought "Why not just reset console to default?" Then after I thought that I remembered the day before this happened I had an xbox update
that I let update and I went to bed. What I believe happened was the update didn' update correctly resulting in an update error. I discovered that to be true when I looked at the update section Settings>system>updates>latest console update status and found
the latest update was still in progress and last time It tried to update was a week ago. So I tried to update and it sat in a loading screen that would last a year. After a Console Reset it fixed it all. To do a Console Reset go to Settings>System>Console
Info>Reset Console.

I chose to keep all my games and apps and upon the reset it connected me to my WiFi asked for a password asked for my account password and did the latest update that it didn't do successfully the first time and now I am online and good to go! Thank you for
Xbox Live Support for being there to help as you guys helped bring me this idea! Hope this helps someone!

:)

 

What did I done wrong?

I can't play online, or join any parties. I haven't done anything bad at all recently, and my behavior on xbox is at "Good". Any solutions?

Please I need your help

 

My Home Gold seems to not be working properly

i can't play online and I can't join parties I was able to do that without gold and now I can't