Xbox friends list not representing who’s online

Right now the best way to see who is online is to go to your friends list in the Friends app. Your online friends will be listed first as well as their current activity. You can also snap the Activity Feed app to see what friends who are online are up to.

Like Reidzer said, it isn't currently supported but hopefully will be soon. I would rather an option to disable those if you didn't want to see them, than to have them disabled already. However as far as I'm aware, your online friends show up at the beginning
of the list, not mixed in with offline friends if you're viewing your friends list. If you're looking at followers the list is based on when they were added to your list, instead of who is online and who isn't, so you may see people who are online mixed in
with those who are offline but if you're looking at your friends list, the people who are online should be listed at the beginning. It isn't the best way to do it, so hopefully we see the addition of that notification.

There's nothing to be ashamed of.

What's on your list does not represent who are you.

My friends are on my friends list, but it dosnt show when they come online, i have to go to friends and look whos come online so i know...

So im trying to ay csll.of duty.. any of my xbox friends who are online friends list on game and xbox saying offline when i highlight their names.. i got into a game and could hear my friend who plays on playstation but my xbox friend was muted and i cant
unmute. Cant invite xbox friends to game.