Why I can't see other's massage and other's massage on Minecraft?

Hi. My name is Brilliant, an independent advisor, happy to assist you today.

Here are a few things you can try to resolve your query:
1. If you're having trouble sending or receiving messages in Minecraft, this could be due to a poor internet connection or a bug in the game. Check your network connection and check for game known issues.

2. Reset game settings to default settings.

3. Uninstall game > Restart machine > Install game.

4. Power cycle your console.

I hope this helps.

I found the problem it was for the parental privacy but how can I like turn it off so I can talk with my friends

If you are having trouble with parental privacy settings in Minecraft, there are a few things you can try to resolve the issue. Here are some steps you can follow:
1. Sign in to your Microsoft account and go to the Family section.
2. Select the child account for which you want to turn off parental privacy settings.
3. Click on More options and then click on Remove from family.
4. Once the child account is removed from the family, try playing the game and check if the game is still asking for permissions.

I been trying to send massages to other ppl on my Xbox and it doesn't send them out. What could be causing this and how can I fix it?

Maybe you're trying too complex massages like Hot Stone, Lomilomi massages or Shiatsu massages. Try more simpler massages like a back rub, or a neck massage and see if that works.

Sorry, just kidding 😉

But for your problem of mEssages not going through:

If you don't have any enforcement related communications suspensions (check at
https://enforcement.xbox.com), you should try to start the Skype application on your PC.

Xbox seems to use Skype for their messaging backend, and Skype requires you to confirm your email address. If you are using a third party email address as your Microsoft Account (like Gmail, Yahoo or any other email provider besides Outlook.com, Live.com
or Hotmail), you might have to confirm that email first.

Skype should be able to tell you why your messaging isn't working.

Then, if you are able to use Skype, try messaging on the Xbox again.

I been trying to send massages to other ppl on my Xbox and it doesn't send them out. What could be causing this and how can I fix it?

Maybe you're trying too complex massages like Hot Stone, Lomilomi massages or Shiatsu massages. Try more simpler massages like a back rub, or a neck massage and see if that works.

Sorry, just kidding 😉

But for your problem of mEssages not going through:

If you don't have any enforcement related communications suspensions (check at
https://enforcement.xbox.com), you should try to start the Skype application on your PC.

Xbox seems to use Skype for their messaging backend, and Skype requires you to confirm your email address. If you are using a third party email address as your Microsoft Account (like Gmail, Yahoo or any other email provider besides Outlook.com, Live.com
or Hotmail), you might have to confirm that email first.

Skype should be able to tell you why your messaging isn't working.

Then, if you are able to use Skype, try messaging on the Xbox again.

lol you beat me to it.