Where is true/false: it is ok to identify my relationship orientation in my gamertag answered?

I have been trying to get an enforcement review going for days now. Only partially because I don't think I did what I'm accused of (sent inappropriate content or some such in a message). I mostly want to know what specifically I did wrong so that I can avoid
it, because if I did or sent something hurtful, I was unaware that it was hurtful and I'd like to learn what it was to avoid accidentally distressing someone in the future.

Today i accidentally hit false on something along the lines of "i can't get a restriction from a bad connection" and then I hit the above question. Here it is again:

True/false: It is ok to identify my relationship orientation in my gamertag.

I couldn't find a specific answer to the question in Community Standards for Xbox, or the code of conduct section of the Microsoft Services Agreement linked from Community Standards. I guessed that it might violate "make content that's suitable for everyone"
if Microsoft considered that type of thing unsuitable, so i guessed false.

The response was that the code of conduct says that identifying one's relationship orientation was allowed. I went back to try to find the words "relationship" and "orientation" in the Community standards and the Microsoft services agreement. Relationship
was not found on either page, and orientation is only present as part of disorientation in the safety warning section of the Microsoft services agreement.

Is there another document i should be reading, or was i ment to infer that it was allowed when i couldn't find a specific rule prohibiting it?

I'm running out of time to get this review going before the restriction ends. I would really like to get the review process started as I'm worried that I may accidentally make the same mistake again if I really did do something wrong and I'd like to avoid
contributing to any toxicity in gaming culture even accidentally. I also am a little worried that a former friend I has a falling out with and who has a vindictive streak may be maliciously reporting me in order to get me banned. They once made a threat to
that effect and I'm not sure how feasible that would be but the fact that I received a restriction and cannot figure out what I did wrong and I'm having such trouble getting a review started makes me worry that it may be possible for someone to do to me.

Please, I really need some help here. I may be unclear on the specifics of some of the code of conduct but I am and have been making a good faith effort to be a good sport, and positive and supportive member of the gaming community. I feel sure that any
examination of my messages from the last couple years would back that claim up, and if I'm wrong and I have been behaving unacceptably I would like to know what i did wrong so I can can correct my behaviour.

:)