Where do I get support for my account,I was told by someone on Microsoft support to Join...

They told me again to go to microsoft because they dont have access to microsoft login details, any idea where i could send a message to microsoft support about this, they also told me not to mention my minecraft account because they might redirect me to mojang support but how can i do that if the only thing i know for sure is my MC username and my password. Seems a little complicated.

I brought this up with Mojang support and someone told me to go to Microsoft support, so what am I supposed to do

That seems very flawed and poorly made if that is the case. From what I am understanding is you can get banned for no reason and scammed out of a lot of money. If that is the case I will be warning many people about this scam and rate all their products as low as I can to help spread awareness of this scam. Please let me know if I am wrong because there should be a way to contact them about something this serious. If not I hope I can prevent other people from getting their money stolen from microsoft. As a matter of fact, where can I get a refund on all my games and purchases since I can't use those anymore and can't get in touch with any support?

Support doesn't handle enforcement actions so they wouldn't be able to help with that. The enforcement team are the only ones who handle bans and the only way to contact them is by submitting a case review (if eligible) at http://emforcement.xbox.com

It doesn't work when you get a false ban on your account. Says the option is not allowed.