Update Xbox gold

You're showing as a gold member on the forums. The gold member under your gamerscore and the G next to the gamerscore does not show as gold when you are gold. Since it says gold member, then that means you are a gold member.

The Rewards servers take longer to update than Xbox servers. So it can take several days to show an update in membership.

Incorrect, the update for the 360 removed the paywall for apps like Youtube, netflix etc, you won't need to be a Gold member for apps. Online gaming, Free Games with Gold do require Gold membership. The update applies for Xbox One aswell but has more updates
e.g external usb HDD support.

Hello, My name is Jesse. I'm an Independent Advisor and a member of the Microsoft community and I'd love to assist you today.

Unfortunately there isn't a way to do this. You should reach out to your bank to block the charges and issue a charge back where possible.

Attached is Xbox refund terms concerning the issue.

I think the error is due to gold or to update or contact xbox support

Unfortunately I am on vacation and need to update to xbox live gold.