Trying to set up Realms for my daughter, but stuck at error message "You need an adult to...

On a side note, my daughter does show up and none of the settings (to include setting her as an adult) allow her to connect to her realms.

I'm having the same issue, had a realm+2, which I played with grandsons, my children wanted to play, so upgraded to realm+10 Jan 2nd , now none of them can join, same error can't play multiplayer, all have allow for multiplayer, my two youngest children
both have adult accounts, grandsons child accounts.

Contacted xbox live with my youngest daughter (18) spent 30mins on phone going through settings on all three tabs in security safely.

To no avail. They said they would get back to me but to try mojang!!!

Hi Jay-AsherMorgan.

My name is Mauro and am glad to assist you. We are sorry for this incident.

Am sharing a previous post about this incident:

Because Realms is a subscription, it cannot ask directly for a purchase. As XboxIsBetterThanPlayStation mentioned, you will need to ask your parent to go to https://account.microsoft.com/family to make changes. Have your parent then:

Click on your profile

Click on Spending

In the spending page, under the Payment methods > Credit cards have them toggle Require approval for every purchase off. Additionally, they can add funds to your account in order to make purchases. Otherwise, when you go to purchase the realm it will ask you to confirm your payment and add a Credit/Debit card, PayPal, or redeem a gift card.

If your parent wants to make sure you can't purchase additional things on your own, be sure to enable Require Approval for Every Purchase again once you've made the purchase.

As your account is a child account, only parent accounts can modify settings.

You can learn more about parental consent and managing settings for Minecraft through Mojang's support page: How to Manage Parental Consent, Family Settings and Realms/Multiplayer Access for a Child Account – Home (minecraft.net)

https://help.minecraft.net/hc/artic...Realms-Multiplayer-Access-for-a-Child-Account

source
https://answers.microsoft.com/en-us...lms-on-a/89bf0f70-0536-455f-b420-eeb96419c5aa

Thanks,
Mauro

My problem isn't on the Xbox console but with using Xbox live to sign in to the windows 10 version of minecraft on my PC. I'm completely unable to change any privacy settings on my account, so I can't log in to a friends realm. It seems to be an issue with
the Family settings - I have access to them on an adult assigned account, but I can't change them. I get the error message "An unexpected error occurred. Please try again later"

My microsoft account is not a child account but it still has the same "error message" when I sign in with a child account. (I'm saying error message as in "you cannot play realms because of how your microsoft account
is set up")