So I needed help to sign in into my Xbox account until I just now realized it was a banned...

My account was never suspended

hello fellow gamer this link should tell you the reason for your suspension and if your able to get a appeal Enforcement history | Xbox Support

please do note that all suspensions are eligible for a appeal

Hello Jesse.

I'm visiting Xbox Enforcement and signing in to see why my account was banned, yet I'm taken to a link that says "Xbox Enforcement | Error!!" "Page no longer available" so I cannot submit a case review. I am banned until Tuesday which is more than 48 hours from now.

I understand that I need to download updates to Xbox Live to successfully sign in to Live. I just wanted to know if there was a way to restrict the updating process to just my account. That way when my son signs in and it wants to do an update he is denied
Xbox Live for a few hours until I can get home and do the update myself. Think of it like a temporary ban from Live until someone "responsible" is around to do the update. Based on your initial comment I assume this type of functionality is not available.
It might be something you want to consider for a future update. Basically have a "master" account that has admin privilages and then "basic" accounts that get temporarly banned from Live until the update is applied by the "master" account.

the fact is xbox has this bug lately with kicking people off the internet. The problem is that they are doing their best to fix the accounts that need to be banned. So when they do that they reboot the server globally so everytime they update their server the connection gets lost. Just go with the flow for now until they are satisfied with the banned accounts.