ps4 new minecraft wont let me play with my friends

Add me new to minecraft and all my friends have ps4s add me

i am currently not able to see my friends list at all so i am trying to play minecraft with a friend but because of this it wont let me any solutions? keeps happening

Hi Reeceysausage, my name is Rodrigo. I'm an Independent Advisor and a member of the Microsoft community and I'd love to assist you today.

I am sorry to hear that.

Are you using the same PSN account with the same Microsoft account?

You can only link one PSN account to one Minecraft account, if you disconnect it, you won't be able to link another PSN account to it.

I took this from the Minecraft site:

"WARNING: Once a Microsoft account has been linked to a PlayStation account, neither the Microsoft account nor the PlayStation Network account can be associated with a different account.

If you choose to unlink accounts, then purchases will be returned to the account that made the purchase. Even after unlinking, Microsoft and PlayStation accounts can only be re-linked to the original account."

For more information, you can use this link: help.minecraft.net/hc/en-us/articles/360037725571-Minecraft-for-PlayStation-FAQ#h_01FANTJ5HE05XVRKTBP5BN1WCT

For some reson it wont let me join my friends party and it wont let me join any game we play

having trouble signing in to Microsoft on minecarft PS4 anyone can figure it out. trying to do cross platform

on Minecraft it wont let me log in or anything on the new update how do I sort it out please