playing with kids on 2 xbox's

If you're both using the same account, you can make a separate account for yourself and have one for your son. Through that, you can use the My Home Xbox feature. What this can do is allow the main account share digitally downloaded games & Xbox Live Gold
with the second account (Gamepass doesn't work with this). You can find out more on how to do this

here.

kid 1 and xbox 1

make sure kid 1 has the gold or ultimate subscription

make sure he sets xbox 2 has home

as long as you have internet kid 1 can sign in on xbox 1 and play normally.

kid 2 and xbox 2

make sure kid 2 signs in on his name on xbox 2 and he should have the same benefits as kid 1 as xbox 2 is kid 1's home console

Set console 1 as HOME console.....anyone can play on this console (wife and Kids) without you being signed in (gold Account)

Console 2... If you are signed in (Gold account) on this xbox your wife and kids can also play sharing your Gold features and games.

This is what I do when my two boys want to play each other on separate xbox's and the same game...

Console 1 (home Xbox) kid #1 signs in

Console 2 , I sign in (GOLD account), kid #2 signs in

they play together

Stuff can't be transferred. The game is tied to kid #2's account AND that xbox.

When you download content, it's licensed to the gamertag and console downloaded to. You can download again on another console, but then only have access with the original gamertag while connected to live.

On the original console, all accounts have access to it.

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To fix this issue, you must put kid #2's account on kid #1's xbox, activate a license transfer and redownload the game onto that console.

This should make the game register to that console, and allow kid #1 to play even though it was downloaded with kid #2 account, and it will make it so it wont be playable to any account on kid #2 xbox, but kid #2 can play it on that console while connected
to live.

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I hope that makes sense, I tend to ramble.

You could cancel the Gold membership (or let it run out) on your parent account, and have one kid that usually plays on Xbox 2 give a new Gold membership.

Then have that "Gold kid" set the Xbox 1 as their Home Console, while they play on Xbox 2.

That way your account (that isn't Gold anymore) doesn't have to be signed in on the "non-Home Console", and as the "Gold kid" is playin on Xbox 2 anyways, they will share Gold to that console, as long as they are signed in on that console, while the Home
Console sharing keeps Xbox 1 golden for everyone.