My Minecraft multiplayer including servers and realms wont work after I change all the...

I’m on Xbox Minecraft and it won’t let me play multiplayer realms/join friends or any server ur says I have to change my Microsoft account setting but doesn’t work once I change the setting.

Hi

Are you talking about a Realm server or online multiplayer servers? Also, which version do you have? (Java or Bedrock)

Minecraft Realms | Minecraft

Minecraft mojang i dont now if realm server or online multiplayer servers

From Minecraft/Microsoft -

https://minecraft.net/en-us/article/minecraft-multiplayer-server-safety

“Join Multiplayer Games” Settings
If you have your settings set to block joining multiplayer games, you can’t join any multiplayer games in Minecraft, including shared local worlds, Realms or servers. To enable multiplayer in Minecraft, make sure this setting is set to ‘Allow.’

However, just like ASCllnaut, that setting was already turned on for my children. In other words I'm in the same boat, we can play on the LAN but not on a realm.

Hi Logal, I'm glad to know that everything's working now!

Don't hesitate to reach the community forums if you need help in the future
For now take care and have a good day

Oh, try please with a different game. Needs to be a paid game

Because free games doesn't need an Xbox live gold subscription in order to play online

Also, the account that owns Live gold... Is part of your family group?
https://account.microsoft.com/family/home
If not, this can be a bit odd. But ask to the owner of the account to invite you to their family group