most times I try and load into a different app/ game my display turns off and I have to...

I'm having the same problem. I have turned off the auto-sign in and even though it has reduced the number of time it occurs, it still does it. Most of the time after it signs her in, it's like there's a ghost in the machine as it will try to change games,
the cursor(selected window) will randomly move to different apps that aren't connected, and ask to turn off console or controller.

I thought turning the console off is turning it off or is this not the case?

I play Minecraft, then turn console off with the console controller command, "turn off console"

When I next turn in the console, with either the main power button or controller button,before I play on any realms or multiplayer game, I have to exit Minecraft, load a different app, wait for that to load, then exit the app back to the home screen, then load Minecraft again and wait about 5 mins for it to load

Now I can play Minecraft on multiplayer or realms servers.

If I want to play local games, I can without needing to "reload" Minecraft twice

every time I try to access my game saves it takes 10 times as long to try and load then when it gets to 99% it stalls, for the last time 6 hours. But if I turn off the wifi the games will load and play. (I have to start over though)

Now my xbox live doesn't even work properly. Every time I boot up my 360 it takes 2-5 minutes just for my background theme to show up and then another 5 minutes to load up screens where I can look at my games or what disc is in my tray. I am unable to do
anything with the marketplace or any of the apps. The only way I could browse is if I did a search which results in more loading screens or, most of the time, an infinite loading screen where I am forced to back out and sometimes turn my 360 off completely.
I even tried a different game, it still took forever to load. I wanted to download 'pirates booty' for borderlands 2 and I kept getting an infinite loading screen. I tried to play worms 2: armageddon and I was forced to download an update, turn off my xbox,
download the update when I booted my 360 back up, and the update took 10-15 minutes to download. I also had to do that process multiple times because my save data was nowhere to be found.

Can't seem to get it to work in compatibility mode, it is an app off the Windows Store. I have tried the in game display options but they don't make a difference. The game display works fine on an Intel Core I5 HP desktop but not on my laptop.