Messaging my child’s account on Xbox

Hi there

It's a filter, you can Highlight the message and view it's just a warning sometimes you can change it in family settings and account settings as well.

Edit: Here is a link with more information https://beta.support.xbox.com/help/family-online-safety/online-safety/safety-settings-for-messages

My microsoft account is not a child account but it still has the same "error message" when I sign in with a child account. (I'm saying error message as in "you cannot play realms because of how your microsoft account
is set up")

I have tried that but I have one message saying that my child needs to sign in again on Windows (xbox) to verify it's account.

but the message on screen is to have an adult purchase them FOR the child account. So, as the adult that owns the xbox live gold account, how do I do what the system is telling me to do? If, as an adult, I can not buy these for my child, why tell me I
can? And are the very childish avatar skins REALLY only meant for adult players? If child accounts cannot have them, your messaging should not tell the child to ask their parents to purchase them for them. It should just say something like “ Avatar skins (many
of which are obviously designed for children) cannot be purchased for a child account. So if you, as a parent buy your child an Xbox Live Gold account, please know that 5hey cannot access content design ped for xbox live gold members even with parent permission”.

Is your account set up as a child account? Those messages sound like they relate to child account settings.

If you do have a child account, those settings will need changing in the adult account it is associated with.