Kids licenses in Parents Xbox account

It's great that you want to make such an amazing gift for your friend's grandson.

While others already described how to remove your account, please help your friend make an account for himself (an adult account), and a separate (child) account for his grandson.

Some (grand) parents make the mistake of using their own adult email account and let the kid play with that.

However, by using their own adult account for the kid, the kid is regarded as an adult for the console, and the parent is unable to prevent the kid from talking to internet strangers for example, or limit the playtime. Also, this prevents the kid from going
on an (accidental) shopping spree, and buying stuff from the Xbox Marketplace with the parent's credit card or bank account.

So please advise your friend, that when they create an account for his grandchild, that he (or the father of the kid) should create their own adult Microsoft Account and then a separate child account (by giving the kid's actual birthdate during account creation).

After the child account is created, the parent should then go to
https://account.microsoft.com/family and add the child account to their family.

That way, the parent can set permissions and privacy options to make the Xbox a safe place to play.

Additionally, this avoids later issues, where the kid would be able to access the parent's email or other Microsoft Services, if the parents let the kid play on their account. Later, you can't move the kid's gaming account away from the parent email account,
without the parent's Microsoft Account being deleted.

If you are the parental account just go to the privacy settings of the child account to allow it online

https://support.microsoft.com/en-us/help/4482922/xbox-one-online-safety-and-privacy-settings-for-parents-and-kids

You could always just change your gamertag to something your son would want and just gift him the account. ...

This might circumvent parental controls the parent has set up for the kid and make the kid a full grown adult that can't be controlled or restricted on the Xbox anymore.

Also, the kid will then have control over the Microsoft account, meaning the kid can access the parent emails, OneDrive storage and anything else associated with the account.

So do NOT do that.

What level account are you? Are you in a family where you are either a parent account or child account?

you may want to review this site on privacy settings as well.

Xbox One online safety and privacy settings for parents and kids

[quote user="Killn The Drama"]

but honestly parents should pay attention to there kids do on xbox

[/quote]

Realistically, it has absolutely nothing to do with parents monitoring their kid's on Xbox LIVE. If they properly use and adjust the Children Account settings, then they shouldn't have to worry about coming into contact with the images and scenarios
that they are attempting to get their kids not to view.