it keeps unfriending one friend , keep giving us both the error of unable to add each other

Hi, if you both unfriend and then friend each other again does that help ?

Just a note for future documentation. We had my friend "unfriend" me on his console, we both restarted our consoles to "clear the cache" and then were able to re-add each other as friends.

"Cannot join game because you are not friends with anybody in the game."

or other errors telling you that you that you cant join your friends game because hes not your friend..

Here is the FIX:

--both you and your friend go to xbox.com and unfriend each other.

--on the website, send each other a Xbox360 friend request, then send an xbox one request.

--Friend or Favorite, doesnt matter.

--Hard reset both your xbox ones.

--you will now be able to join your friends server.

No idea what is wrong, but this is the fix. enjoy.

Try and unfriend each other, then both turn off your xbox and back on again. Then hover above Minecraft and press start, go dow to manage game and ad ons and "delete saved data" then add each other back as friends then reload your games and try again.
Let me know how you get on.

Thanks for the information.

1. Both of you try to unfriend from each other.

2. Remove both of your accounts or profiles and press the power button for 10 seconds to reboot.

2. After that add your profiles and send request again for a friend.

3. Try to send a message

Kind regards