I'm trying to get realms and it shows that I need to change my online safety settings.

If you’re an organizer and you’re a Minor it will not work, you need to use an organizer account that is an adult by default and add your account as a member.

My account is the organizer account and it takes me to an support page for both links. For the family link, it will only let me change the other members in my families account and not mine.

Hi Cooldawg21, I hope you're doing great out there despite the issue that you're experiencing. I am an Independent advisor and I am here to help you in regards to your concern.

For you to manage it you can simply sign in to https://account.xbox.com/settings.

If the system detects that your account is a child account you will be redirected to a support site and if not you will be able to change it successfully.

If you were redirected to a support page, please sign in to https://account.microsoft.com/family and check if there is an organizer account linked to your account then use the organizer account so sign in to https://account.xbox.com/settings then "allow" the setting on this screenshot:

Hi Belle, I'm back again. I successfully changed my date of birth, as well as my username, and it all shows up on Minecraft, however I still get the same prompt when trying to join a realm. "You cannot play on Realms because of how your Microsoft Account is set up. Please ensure your online safety settings allow Multiplayer and Clubs." I follow the link and it instructs to have a parent change these settings, but obviously, that wasn't the problem.

So me and a few of my friends are thinking about starting a Realms world together and i try to play on Realms and it says You Need Permission You cannot play on Realms because of how your Microsoft account is set up. This can changed in your privacy
and online safety settings on aka.ms/accountsettings. The aka.ms thing didn’t work for me and it brought me to xbox360 online settings. So I need to figure out what I have to change and how I do it. So if anyone can help please do so.