If i send a message on my phone using the xbox app, does it show up on my xbox? And if i...

So if i go to my xbox app, and go to social and go to chats then delete them all from my phone, i should be able to see them when i go on my xbox? Also my xbox has been offline for a bit. The reason im asking is bc my console is getting update by one of my friend (my console hasnt been online and is getting update now) and i dont want them to be able to read some the messages!

Hi there! This is Ronnie, an independent advisor.

Nice to meet you and I hope you are having a great day!

I understand you have a question about deleting messages in different devices.

Actually, both devices are connected to your account so what ever messages you send from your phone through the Xbox app to your friend, you will be able to view that as well on the Xbox console. If you delete this using the Xbox app on your phone, this will also be deleted on the console messages.

So yes, what you are saying can happen.

Yes, and yes.

The Xbox itself, Xbox app on mobile, and Xbox app on PC are all connected in terms of messaging, so sending/deleting a message on one of those platforms affects what you see on all of the others.

it show she on my fravoiters but she does not show up on the list and we tried to send each other messages and she does not get them and i dont get hers and i have tried the website and the app to message her.

I too am having this problem. My Xbox one as well as the desktop and phone apps all show that there is a pending message but nothing shows up in the inbox. I tried sending myself a message to reset the count but it didn't work. Still showing one unread message
but there is nothing to read or delete. For an OCD guy like me this is kind of annoying. Microsoft please provide some guidance for how to fix this. Thanks.