I was wondering a question could someone please help me out with this

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Thanks....I'l try some of these tips!

I think to hold an opponent down on the ground to have it stand up is R stick -->. To stuff a takedown is L trigger and R stick <--. Easiest way to stay on top in the ground is to get into full mount, and to just try to prevent the other fighter from trying
to transition out. If all else fails, practice and go over the sections in the tutorials that you need most help in. Hopefully someone else on the forums can add some input into the button commands and extra tips and techniques.

Take down counter- flick right stick to the left as other fighter is comming from the right, an vice versa if your on the right.

No need to touch the L trigger that's for doing take downs.

Ground an pound - keep moving right stick down to grab or to move other player away( AMA controls) once you have hold of other player keep right stick pushed in opposite direction away from opponent, like you do for a counter take down.

To stay top of an opponent keep the transitions random, don't keep spamming them or you will get TR.

In between trans get in the habit of throwing body punches head shots are pointless in this game unless you've got them in the SAV position.

SAV position an a couple of elbows can end the game very fast, the elbow from SAV can end a match faster than any spinning back fist or any head kick.

Hope this helps I'm no pro but I do like the game

And as an aside the referee will only break it up if there's a stalemate ie you have to be in full guard without your opponent postured up.