I want to upgrade, i pre-ordered the standard edition, but i want the ronaldo edition

I would suggest contacting Xbox Support directly here-
http://support.xbox.com/contact-us and request for a refund. Then buy the Ronaldo edition.

Don't forget to explain your situation and they should be able to help you

Lcontact support to get your first pre order canceled. And after that, preorder the Ronaldo edition.

You would have to contact support to see if they can cancel your original purchase and then purchase the edition you want. There's no way to just upgrade. 1-800-4my-xbox if you're in the US/Canada or http://support.xbox.com/contact-us

Hi Russell! I'm Rostom, an Independent Advisor. I will be glad to help you here.

There's no direct upgrade for your pre-ordered edition. You must cancel the pre-order of Standard Edition and pre-order the Digital Deluxe Edition.

Please go to your order history https://account.microsoft.com/billing/orders/ to cancel it.

I pre-ordered both consoles through Amazon.

If you order through Amazon, they have launch day bundles for the PS4 that are still available for pre-order. Since Sony has not given an official release date, my shipping date is 31DEC. However, the launch day edition (no bundle) is unavailable for pre-order.
If you pre-order the standard edition (not launch edition), you MIGHT get an email later on that says Amazon upgraded your standard edition to launch day edition, guaranteeing you will receive yours on that day. This also applies to the Xbox One, which is
what happened to me. I pre-ordered Xbox One on 15JUN, then I received an email six days laters that said Amazon upgraded my pre-order to launch day. Keep in mind, there is only one bundle for the Xbox One, so I would do it fast.