I just got a suspension for trying to defend my kids son from someone making sexual...

Hi there, my name is Gerardo and I'm an Xbox player like you.

I'm sorry to read that there has been someone who has been behaving that way and making those types of comments, as a player I understand that this can be unpleasant and annoying. It is not advisable to succumb to the provocations of other players as engaging in similar behavior can put you at risk of receiving a suspension as this case. Therefore, it is better to report and block them, thereby avoiding this type of inconvenience.

Keep in mind that the only way to appeal a suspension is by logging into the following link with the account that was banned:

https://support.xbox.com/help/family-online-safety/enforcement/enforcement-history

If the suspension or ban is eligible for a case review, you will see an option that says "Submit an appeal." You will need to fill out the form and wait for the Xbox Safety team to analyze the situation and make a decision.

If the appeal is approved, the disciplinary action will be reversed, and the restricted features will be removed from the account.

Take into consideration that Xbox Support can’t assist with suspensions or enforcement actions, they don’t have access to enforcement details. Since we in this forum are players like you, we do not have access to that information either.

I hope you understand and if you have any questions about it, do not hesitate to let me know.

Joined a party with a guy making sexual advances so i told him to stop being a **** its disgusting and got com banned and suspended

What the other person did is definitely 100% not acceptable.

That being said it doesnt matter how a situation starts. If you respond in a way that is against the rules (which you did) then you can also be suspended.

Thats why its best to not respond at all and simply block and report them and just let the enforcement team deal with it. That way you wont get suspended and only the other person will.

I got a rage message from a kid running and gunning because I kept killing him trying to defend my flags in Domination.

I just got banned because someone sexually harassed me and I told them to stop sexually harassing me and I'm the one that got banned

You must have said a bit more than "stop sexually harassing me"

Try to file a case review at enforcement and whilst on their pages, read every bit of information. This will help you understand how they work and in future issues, keep you from a suspension.

If somebody sends me messages that violate the code of conduct, I report them, mute them, block them and never respond to their messages or voice communications.

My son got a xbox enforcement about communication till 9 november.

My son allready get so many enforcement, there is someone who report all the time the activity of my son just to bullying and hopes he get a enforcement.

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Every child uses some words en does things but this is so many time he get this enforcement. I hope you could have a sight on this enforcement and hope to getting an answer to this.

It doesn't matter how many times someone reports your son. As long as your son doesn't violate the

Code of Conduct, nothing will happen.

HOWEVER: If your son did something that violated the Code of Conduct, every report will attach the sent message or other data and telemetry along with the report as evidence for the Enforcement Team to review.

If they find, your son violated the Code of Conduct, a suspension will be issued.

It's like saying "There are so many football hooligans destroying shop windows and rioting through the city, and my son who tipped over that car and lit that trash can on fire got arrested by the police."

If your son got an Enforcement suspension, then he violated the Code of Conduct, and the Enforcement Team has the evidence to prove it.

So please educate your kid to NOT engange in "using some words", when these words violate the Code of Conduct.

If your kid gets harassed by other kids, educate your kid to NOT respond, but to report these messages and block the offending kids.

If necessary, as a parent, go to
https://account.microsoft.com/family and add your child's account to your family (make sure your kid really has their own child account, and are not using your or another adult's account).

After you added your child's account to your family, go to
https://account.xbox.com/settings, click your child's account, and make it, so your kid can only talk to "Friends Only". Then make sure your kid only has known friends in their friend list, that they know and won't report your kid.

That way, your kid will only be able to talk to kids they know, that won't report your kid. All other people will be unable to talk to or harass your kid.

Thank you for you're answer.

I have spoken with my son.

There was someone who harassed my son and he reacted on him. I think it is all the time the same person and he know that my son will respond on him.

I told him not to respond amd report his messages.

Hopefully this will help for him.

His account is added as a family account.

Thanks for the response.