i got banned for messaging to many people n now i cant load back into my game i need to get...

You would need to go to the enforcement site HERE & file for a case review if eligible.

Messaging too many people in a short space of time is seen as spamming which is most likely the reason for your suspension.

If it's a permanent ban & it doesn't get overturned then you wont be eligible for a refund on any digital purchases,remaining subscriptions etc. which is something you agreed to when you started your account.

I just started having 2k issues since playing it perfectly for a month.... my SF in career balled became 6th man 2 nights ago then i loaded park n got booted. I restarted console n 2k launched but asked for my player name.... i entered it loaded n was
back to same spot in career but now crashing...

Today i cant even load the game at all... or Powerstar golf.... wtf....

Maybe the auto updates for 2k / games or xbox updates are downloading? How do you know bah

I know the pain, i bought the game the day it came out, after about 2-3 week's i got the message saying there appears to be know saved game for this profile. Now every time load the game i get the same message and every think get's wiped, luckily enough
the ranks are stored online, but as for my campaign n co-op n classes, i can't even try n re do them... cuz i know they will be gone as soon as i take the disk out...... still no help from E.A after asking too many time's how to fix it.

nevermind. I was up very briefly , but when I loaded COD I got disconnected. Now I cant get back on

You can view your ban at enforcement.xbox.com and file a case review from there if the ban is eligible. The enforcement team does not use the forums.