I can not play games with friends anymore, I get disconnected from the parties and lobbies...

Discus and support I can not play games with friends anymore, I get disconnected from the parties and lobbies... in XBoX Rewards & Social to solve the problem; I have tried multiple different games with me hosting and with other people hosting the sessions and the parties with no luck. My current internet... Discussion in 'XBoX Rewards & Social' started by ChimichangaLOKI, Jan 17, 2023.

  1. I can not play games with friends anymore, I get disconnected from the parties and lobbies...


    I have tried multiple different games with me hosting and with other people hosting the sessions and the parties with no luck. My current internet speed is at 800MBPS down and 45MBPS up with an open NAT Type. if I am not in a party it works a lil bit better but thats just when im playing by myself. I will be in the party with friends and it will be working fine for about 10 mins then i will just stop being able to hear them talking and then about 1 min or 30 seconds later it will say party chat disconnected, at the same time as the party messes up the game will start lagging and typically kick me from the game as well or sometimes if im lucky ill be able to stay in the game once it kicks me from the party. and then sometimes it also does it the opposite way where my game starts lagging after about 10/15 mins and the party chat will mess up where i cant hear anyone then it will kick me from the game and sometimes i will be able to stay in the party.

    Steps I have taken:

    I have reset my router/modem multiple times and contacted my ISP about it.

    I have changed settings on my router UPNP is on and Teledo is working,

    I have manually changed the Alternate ports for my Nat,

    I have reset my MAC Address,

    i have also tried wireless or wired connection no difference,

    The only error messages I get are from the games when I get kicked out which they are always basic connection issues one, and the only thing it tells me for the party is party chat Disconnected.

    XBOX Series X


    I can not play games with friends anymore, I get disconnected from the parties and lobbies... [​IMG]

    I can not play games with friends anymore, I get disconnected from the parties and lobbies... [​IMG]

    I can not play games with friends anymore, I get disconnected from the parties and lobbies... [​IMG]


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    ChimichangaLOKI, Jan 17, 2023
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  2. Zehq Win User

    Disconnections.

    Didn't work, turn it completely off and unplugged it, tried joining and inviting my friend, same thing happened.

    -

    (I'll describe what happened)

    I invite him to join, and he can't.

    I disconnect connect from LIVE and repeat, still doesn't work.

    We both turn off our modems and routers reconnect and repeat and he joins! But wait! There's more!

    Now either after around 30 seconds or when I start the match he either gets disconnected from the lobby (only the lobby) or if I start it I get disconnected from LIVE (just says disconnected from LIVE every time), respectively.

    So now we've both given up for tonight.

    -

    Funnily enough is that this has happened before, but every now and then we connect and can play.

    We've never had problems when "partying up" in Minecraft or another game, it's just Call of Duty. It's annoying as hell!

    (Oh this is the Spec Ops lobby, not online)
  3. xGH05TFAC3x Win User

    Unable to signin, errors 80072ee2 & 807b01f7

    keep getting error 807B01F7/8072EE2 thought this was on my end but glad to see it not. i keep getting dropped outta games and parties. i can be in a game/lobby/party for 5 minutes before i get disconnected from all and end up in a pregame lobby SO FRUSTRATING.
    also will this be fixed before double xp weekend. and i know a couple people have mentioned it already, but why am i paying for a service that doesn't work?
  4. BranchyLemur2 Win User

    inviting friends to your game

    Just party up with the friends who are online already or start a party and invite them. When you start playing a mp game your friends in party will receive a pop up asking if they wish to join or if you are in the same game you will get brought in automatically
    from lobby.
  5. xBishix Win User

    Sporadic "Disconnected from Xbox Live" messages.

    I am having the same issue and it's starting to make me become very agitated. Sporadic disconnects from XBox live when I am not actively playing an online game. If I am playing a single player game, Skyrim for example, within 5 minutes I am disconnected
    from Live. If I am in a Party Chat I am disconnected from the chat but not Live. Then I have to reconnect to the Party. Or, my friend are booted from the party and not me...the party issues happen every 2-3 minutes or less sometimes. Starting to get very aggravating.
  6. Fenrir Tyr Win User

    Multiple xboxes on same router can no longer play in same game together

    My Fiance and I have the same problem we cannot get into a Party or Game lobby. We have seperate XBL Gold accounts. We can both connect to live and even play the same games at the same time but we cannot be in the same lobby or party without one or other
    of us being disconnected. We have found though that Halo Reach seems to be the exception, here we can party up and play with no problems so far this is the only game we have found that still allows us to this.
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