I can not log in to my xbox one with any account

There is currently a service alert up - https://support.xbox.com/en-US/xbox-live-status?xr=shellnav

I also can not play any games xbox one, not even log into my account.

You can only log on to one Xbox One with an account, it will immediately log you out of any other console when you log on.

So from what I read you have a gold account and your 2 sons have silver accounts. For the silver accounts to work the xbox that they use needs to be set up as the home xbox from your account. Since your account is gold you will be able to sign I from
any xbox and your gold will work. On a xbox that is setup as a home xbox any other account logged in can share your gold benefits which include your games that your account owns. I run 2 xboxes with a similar situation. The xbox in the living room is setup
as my home xbox. The one in the bedroom isnt set to anyone home xbox. The kids can use the front one without me having to log in. They have access to any games I own or games I have downloaded through gamepass. The bedroom xbox has to have me logged into it
for any of my gold benefits to work. So I can log into that xbox and the kids can play from there to. Basically you need to setup the xbox your kids use the most as your home xbox.

I can connect right good to xbox live there. The issue is logging to to my account "El Silver". I can turn around and insert fifa and log in to my other XBL account. Its that specific one in my house only.

Any other suggestions?

Dont want to buy Gold 12 months because would just go to waste again.