I bought a backwards compatible game and it doesnt show up on 360

You would have to purchase the 360 versions of those games in order to play them on a 360. Even though the games are listed as 360 games, Rare Replay is not available for the 360 so the versions of the games that come with it do not work on a 360.

there are 2 versions of the 360 games, the ones with rare replay are licenced to that game bundle and therefore will only work on xbox one or later, they have the 360 picture but with rare replay at the top, the proper 360 versions are seperate.

If they're backwards compatible they'll show up in your ready to install section of your games and apps. Not all 360 games are backwards compatible. https://majornelson.com/blog/xbox-one-backward-compatibility/

if you sign in with the account on your xbox one that bought the games digitally any backwards compatible games would automatically show up in the ready to install section under my games and apps.

another place you can see what games your account has the license for is if you sign into account.xbox.com and go to my games at the top of the screen there should be a place that you can sort the games by type of system (Xbox one, PC, Xbox 360) if you click
on Xbox 360 it will show you any 360 games that your account owns digitally. Then you can go to

https://www.xbox.com/en-US/xbox-one/backward-compatibility/available-games and check to see if any of them are on the backwards compatibility list

That's what I did, but in the games list on my account the only xbox 360 content that appears are the backwards compatible games that I got after I switched to the xbox one. Except for Bully Scholarship Edition, and the only reason that one shows up is
because I talked with support and they manually transferred the license after confirming that I had bought the digital download version 8 years ago. Up until a few months ago I used to be able to go into my purchase history and see everything I ever bought,
but now the only pre-2016 purchases that show up there is a gamertag change and Bully

Only games that are backwards compatible will show up for redownload. Not all 360 games are backwards compatible (like the ones you listed). You can see a list of backwards compatible games here - www.xbox.com/.../backward-compatibility