i am game sharing with my wife i just pre ordered mw3 it still want her to buy it do we...

That is correct.

Is only on pre-order beta which will.end soon

It isn't released till Nov 10th

Pre-order bonus(es) only go to the account that purchased the game. If your account purchased early access, only your account will have early access.

so on the 10th she will be able to play without having to re download everything

well i purchased it but it still tells her to purchase it also is it because the game has not been released yet?

This generation, it's Alice Madness Returns. My Wife loves all things Alice, so she pre-ordered it. After I looked into the game, I actually convinced her that she probably wouldn't like it. It sounded too action based, as I thought it was
more of a puzzle solving adventure. Anyway, she ended up canceling her pre-order. Some time goes by, and we're at her Sister's house, who happened to have the game. We got to talking about how we were going to buy it, but didn't think we'd like it. Her Sister
ended up lending her the game, and I ended up loving it (I was right that my Wife wouldn't like it though). In the end, it's one of my favorite games this generation.