I am deply sorry for what i did pls forgive me how lonb wll i be suspended for?

You would need to go to http://enforcement.xbox.com for information about your suspension

How does one scam another? Forgive me I am not familiar with this and want to know what I should be looking out for?

Hi there,

I'm afraid nobody in the forums will be able to assist regarding enforcement related issues or questions.

You will have to go to http://enforcement.xbox.com for any information and possible options.

What seems to be the issue?

It seems like you got an Enforcement suspension on your account, right?

You can check for that on the Enforcement website on
https://enforcement.xbox.com

In order to prevent that from happening in the future:

No matter how heated the argument gets: Never ever take the bait of someone else and find yourself using bad language in a reply.

That way you give the other person a chance at reporting your reply and getting you banned.

If you really want to hurt someone in an argument, check if his message or behavior violates the Xbox Live Code of Conduct and report his message.

Then bring up that person's profile and block that account from contacting you.

There is nothing worse for a person in an argument than being ignored.

If you reply to his arguments, they only laugh and make fun of you, and enjoy your reaction. Being ignored and blocked is far more worse for them, and it prevents you from getting banned.