How can someone threaten me and say they will kill me but I reply with “ stop spamming me...

and I had to reply saying YES I DID so I can make them stop, but they keep threatening me

Hello, first it's a pleasure to be able to help you today.

My name is welcome to the community.

Hello, I'm sorry for what happened regarding your account, we would like to set your expectation about this situation.

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As for ranked not playing KD that is false, false, false. In competitive Gears of War I had a kid threaten to kill me for taking off the head of someone he was about to Chainsaw. In Call of Duty 4 I killed the last man before my teammate could plant the
bomb, he threatened to kill me. In Halo 4 I got 5 quick kills with the sniper. In the lobby afterwards guess what? They threatened to kill me. Don't say competitive is all about the wins and not individual stats because that is just not true. And the silence
after an intense match is refreshing. Trash talk is poor sportsmanship.

Hey there Care Noct!

You mention that you are 13 years old... Let your parents know.... If needed, let the authorities know... i.e police.

Here is more information concerning DDOS attacts and what to do...
support.xbox.com/.../dos-attacks-faq

@ Care Noct!

One more thing you cannot do is name and shame in the forums... It's not allowed.... as you will see when a mod blocks the name you named....