Home button does not function properly on any controller, and settings is inaccessible

I also have a problem with this controller. In my case the home button dose not work properly. It will turn on the console and turn off the controller when held down but that is all. The home button dose not take me home or poll up any menus.

Not all content is shareable, the only thing you can do is buy those that don't work for sharing.

I do know from my own experience that Bungie did change the way shared content works compared to the last release. My own home has four Xbox One systems and we all play Destiny 2. We have 2 Gold accounts and with that my son and daughter can play all of
the content in Shadowkeep with the exception of the season pass content.

The easiest solution was to buy just the season pass itself from the Eververse market while in game. If I recall correctly it cost 1000 silver in game. Essentially $10 US. It saved having to pay for another copy of the game.

That's standard for most games. When I game share it's rare for both accounts to get the bonuses but it does happen with some games.

It's game sharing, not bonus content sharing. It's pretty stabdard for most games. If developers had that happen then everyone would just share a bunch and they lose money.