Here’s my stats for being in the insider program for 2 years and 3 months of me being in...

This is a process that takes many months.

My level 5 is from 2 years of being on here regularly.

This also prevents you from being in further insiders programs fyi for a year

Have you played for three complete years? Even 2 years and 364 days will still only show up as a 2.

They need to be 3 full years of being Gold, the Tenure stops increasing during any lapse of being Silver.

For instance, let's say you joined 3 years and 2 months ago but for three of those months you were Silver, as Tenure sees it that is just 2 years and 11 months, thus the 3 does not yet appear on your gamer profile.

To be part of the preview program you will have to go through 3 steps:

1) Be invited

2) Be accepted

3) Enroll

(Note being accepted can take up to months before actually getting into the program and there is no guarantees and if you have any 'recent' enforcement action on your account can restrict access to the program. But if your enforcement action was a year ago
then your set and authorized to join the program.)

If you currently have no friends in the program and you want in you can post a request here:

forums.xbox.com/.../1994482.aspx

To have access to the program you will have to go through 3 steps,

1) Be invited

2) Be accepted

3) Enroll

(Note being accepted can take up to months before actually getting into the program and there is no guarantees and if you have any 'recent' enforcement action on your account can restrict access to the program. But if your enforcement action was a year ago
then your set and authorized to join the program.)