help idk why i cant connect privacy saftey settings things

Go to settings then privacy and online saftey click on xbox live privacy then put it on adult defaults and it should work

Try ingGo to settings then privacy and online saftey click on xbox live privacy then put it on adult defaults and it should work

If you're looking at the settings for Privacy and Online Saftey Settings, you can try to change them at Xbox.com or on your console: Privacy and Online Saftey

If one isn't working, try the other. If you're having issues in both, another browser might be worth checking as well as visiting account.microsoft.com to ensure there are no other listed issues with your account.

Another issue might be that your account is designated a Child account which would require that an adult modify your Privacy and Online Saftey Settings, which you should check that your birthday is correct for your account:

Verify account birthday

It's been suggested to check and change your Privacy and Online Saftey Settings. This page has details on how to get there to check those settings. You're going to want to look at settings for playing Multiplayer and settings that involve connecting outside
of Xbox Live.

Let us know if you have questions about the settings or need more information on which ones you should need!

Could you please give me a link to that setting?

I cant find it...

Can you run a network test from your console under Settings > Network and run the tests there? Let us know what they say?

You might also want to check your Privacy and Online Saftey Settings: https://privacy.microsoft.com/en-us/xbox-one-privacy-and-online-safety See if they might be preventing you from getting online and connected.