Friend management.

This article suggests that I must request their friendship from my console. I will try again.

support.xbox.com/.../view-xbox-one-friends-on-xbox-360

Ok, 10 hours in, 3 chats with product support, this still doesn't work for me. At this point, I now see my TargetFriend when I login via windows, they are my follower, we are friends, and I have a pending XBox 360 friend request to them. On their end,
they see me as a friend. They don't seem to see any sign of the xbox 360 pending request, and if they try to delete me as a friend so we can start fresh, it just says "you can't do anything with this relationship right now". I've deleted them and re-added
them and on my side I'll see them drop to "follower" but on their side they don't see any change. We tried waiting a few hours in between the delete and re-add but no difference - I'm somehow stuck in their friend queue as an xbox 1 friend.

I now see via browser that I can select these xbox one friends and choose "send an xbox 360 request". I've done that with two other friends and I can see all three of them now under "pending xbox 360 request" and we'll see if one of them figures it out.

Hey Super Knight,

Thank you for reaching out. You can manage your relationship with your friends by checking out our

Manage Friends on Xbox App article. There you can choose to friend, unfriend, favorite, or even block your friend's profiles.

You have some ways to manage your friends and followers, please see the link below for more information.

https://support.xbox.com/help/friends-social-activity/share-socialize/manage-friends-followers-favorites

Hi there,

Have you look at this support page :How to manage Friends, Followers, and Favorites