EA account needs to be unlined from this email but I do not have access to it.

Hi Ethan D, my name is Jose and it is my pleasure to help you.

I want to understand a little more about the problem you are experiencing, will your Microsoft account be deleted, and therefore will you lose your EA account? Could you explain a little better, so I can give you better help.

I wait your answer.

Greetings,
Jose.

You say that you know longer have access to the email address associated with the EA account have you tried going to EAs website and changing the email associated with the account I believe all you need to do that is the email and password.

EA has instructions but it does sound like you need to contact them to do it. I'd give it another try since they do link to these instructions from their account help "If you’ve changed your email address or no longer have access to the one you used to create
your account, swap emails from one account to another."

I CAN'T LOG INTO MY EA ACCOUNT (EA Help link)

You can change the email associated with your Origin account, but you need to have access to it first, so if you don't know how to access to EA Origin and you also can't access the email associated with it it would be harder to do so.

First try to gain access to Origin, if you can do it, you can create a new Microsoft Account and associate your Origin account to it.

The problem is that it was linked to an email i no longer have access to. i cant get into the account thats linked to my xbox account. I need to unlink it without getting into my EA account.