Controller Suggestion

The xbox one controller is already really good, maybe get something like the Elite series V2 might be better

Good suggestion, make sure to let the right people know about it.

It seems like the controller for Series X will be a bit smaller than the current model so you may have a better result. Ergonomics are super important. I’ve heard that the new controller will comfortably accommodate a large majority of gamers hand sizes.

For my hands, the playstation controllers feel awkward with the symmetrically aligned thumb sticks...even worse is the nintendo joycons, but grips have saved my hands with those thankfully.

I have issues with my hands which brings a lot of pain. I've played with both xbox and ps4 controllers. Although the ps is a lot lighter, I find the positioning of the sticks actually an issue for me. The xbox controller is heavier. I lay a pillow
on my lap or sofa cushion and then put my hands on it and rest the controller in them. Fully supporting the weight with the cushion. I find this helps a lot.

Have to agree with the majority here.The xbox controllers are far superior to PlayStation controllers.They are just the right weight,the thumbstick positions are more comfortable & the triggers & bumpers are much better.

I can use a xbox controller all day long but have to take a break after using a PlayStation controller after a couple of hours as my hands ache.