Change Who Gets Child Requests

get your wife to setup a filter under the email program that sends them to a different folder (make one called kids annoyance lol) then disable notifications for that particular email. I had to do the same, i have 5 kids and it is a royal pain, especially on multiple systems, i.e google, microsoft, playstation and countless others.

Thanks - we will try that. She uses Yahoo so I don't know if it allows you to block notifications for a specific folder.

Hello FireMedicLee,

I found this but have not tried it yet. I would give this a shot.

Changing Safety and Privacy settings:
On your console, go to the Settings page and select Privacy.
Choose "Change Settings".
Choose a preset privacy group or choose "Customize".
Online Friends – Other people on Xbox Live may want to add your child to their personal friends list. To manage approval of your child’s online friends,
you can require these requests to be approved by you.
*Choose "Approval not required" to allow your child to send and accept new friend requests.
*Choose "Require Approval" to require that friend requests be approved by you. If you choose this option, you must also approve any new friend request that your child wants to send to other gamers.
It will ask you to enter a password when a friend request is sent or approved.
Communications – Manage who your child can communicate with on Xbox Live. Communication on Xbox Live includes chat, messages, and game invitations using
voice, video, or text.
Choose your level of security:
Select "Everyone" to allow your child to communicate with anyone on Xbox Live.
Select "Friends Only" to allow your child to communicate only with people on his or her friends list.
Select "Blocked" to block everyone from communicating with your child. Your child will still receive new friend requests.
To exit press the B on your controller, and then choose Save and Exit.

Sorry for not elaborating, I am trying to change username on a child account and cannot find out where the request for username changes go.

Ok, if your account is a child account, then that will be why. Was it a child account previously or did you accidentally change it? If it was an accidental change, then you just need to change it back in the privacy settings. If you were previously, then
you'll have to talk to whoever set your account as a child account (most likely parents or a carer) and get them to change it. Child accounts are not able to stream as child accounts are usually owned by people who are underage to stream. Hopefully you get
your issue solved and if you need any extra support or the issue persists no matter what you do, visit
support.xbox.com/contact-us