Change Realm Settings

Hello, Tavinlybrook

First which way are you trying to join the realm with a code? Or just an invite?

If so you might have to make sure the host has you added into the realm in settings or change the settings of the realm to allow you.

Please sign in to account.xbox.com/settings and ensure none of the multiplayer permissions are blocked.

Note that you can't access the link if you are a child account, since you will need an adult account from the family group to change the settings on your behalf!

Hello, My name is David. I am an independent advisor, happy to help you today.

If it asks you for a game pass to join your friends in Minecraft, it may be because the kingdom owner has changed the kingdom's privacy settings. If the realm owner has set the privacy settings to “Friends Only,” only players who have an Xbox Game Pass membership will be able to join the realm.

If you're not sure if the kingdom owner has changed their privacy settings, you can ask them directly. If you don't have an Xbox Game Pass membership and want to join the realm, you'll need to purchase a membership or ask the realm owner to change your privacy settings.

I hope this helps.

Best regards.

To change the Minecraft Realm privacy for everyone, follow these steps:

Sign in to your Xbox account.
Open the Xbox app and select “Minecraft.”
Select “Settings” and then “Privacy and security.”
Select “Change online privacy and security settings.”
Select “Everyone” to allow anyone to join your Realm, or select “Friends” to allow only your friends to join.
Save the changes.

Hi Robo,

Thanks for keeping us updated regarding the account not being able to access realm. In this case, the best thing to do is adjust all the settings for the account. Try the following link:
trouble changing
your privacy and online safety settings on your Xbox One console.

It may be that the account was changed to an adult but the settings were not changed over for everything. It is best to go in and manually change the settings in situations like these. Also, here is the link that was listed above, that did not work
the first time:

Minecraft Realms

I hope this helps