Can't resolve 'Multiplayer is disabled' in minecraft no matter what.

Hey there!

Nice to meet you! I'm Darhyl, an Independent Advisor. I'm sorry you are experiencing this. I am here to help.

It might be possible that the system has detected that your account is a child account. Even if changing the birthdate on your Microsoft account, the system will still detect the original birthdate registered upon the account's creation.

NOTE: A child account is registered on the birthdate 21 years old and below upon the account's first creation.

An adult account is registered on the birthdate of 22 years old and older upon the account's first creation.

Try to create a dummy adult Microsoft account on account.microsoft.com then once it's done, have your adult account add your main account on Microsoft Family as "Family Member" by signing the dummy account on account.microsoft.com > Family.

NOTE: Please make sure that your dummy account is the "Organizer" and your main account is the "Family Member"

Once it's done, try to manage your main account's Xbox privacy settings using your adult account:

Sign in to your adult Microsoft account at Xbox.com.

Select your Gamertag, and then select the More actions button (…).

Select Xbox settings, and then select Privacy & online safety.

NOTE: Because you’re accessing sensitive info, you may have to enter your password or PIN.

Select the Gamertag of your main account that you want to manage.

Select the Xbox Series X|S, Xbox One, and Windows 10 devices Online Safety tab or the Privacy tab.

Review the current settings and update all of the options as "Allow" and "Everyone", and then select Submit to save the changes.

NOTE: You must select Submit at the bottom of the page before leaving or switching to another tab. If you don't submit the changes before you move to the other tab, your changes won't be saved.

Have the member sign in and then sign out of their account on the console to make sure the changes take effect.

Reference link: https://support.xbox.com/en-US/help/family-onli....

I have done all of this and Minecraft's multiplayer is still disabled

My name is Fernando I'm an independent consultant, I'm happy to help

I'm going to go through some procedures that can help with this problem. check your connection
The problem with the internet connection can cause many errors. If your Internet connection is slow or disconnected, here are some suggestions to fix it.

If your internet speed is decreasing, turn off your modem and turn it back on. This process will lighten your internet a bit.
We can eliminate the problem by clearing the Internet cache.
clear DNS cache
Type cmd in the initial search screen and run as administrator.
Type the following lines of code in order on the command prompt screen and press enter.
ipconfig /flushdns
netsh int ipv4 reset
netsh int ipv6 reset
netsh winhttp reset proxy
netsh winsock reset
ipconfig /registerdns
After this operation, it will show that your DNS cache and proxies have been cleared successfully.
After this process, you can open the game by restarting your computer. Register another DNS server
We can eliminate the problem by registering another dns server on the computer.

Open the Control Panel and select the Network and Internet option
Open Network and Sharing Center on the screen that opens.
Click Change Adapter Settings on the left.
Right-click your connection type to open the Properties menu.
Double-click Internet Protocol Version 4 (TCP/IPv4).
Let's apply the settings by entering the Google DNS server that we will provide below.
Preferred DNS server: 8.8.8.8
Other DNS server: 8.8.4.4
Then click Check settings on exit and press OK button and apply actions.
After this process, you can restart your computer and run the game.

Hope I helped and see you soon

Hi Mulham! My name is Darhyl and I’d be more than happy to help you with your query.

I'm sorry you are experiencing this with your Minecraft multiplayer error.

Just a gentle reminder that we are only Xbox gamers like you here in the community. We are not Microsoft employees and we do not have tools to access any Microsoft System.

I understand that you have already changed your Xbox privacy settings multiple times yet to no avail.

Kindly try to perform the following workarounds just in case this would work according to the official Xbox website: https://support.xbox.com/en-US/help...ttings by selecting View details & customize.

"Sign in to Xbox.com.

Select your Gamertag, and then select the More actions button (…).

Select Xbox settings, and then select Privacy & Online Safety.

Select the Xbox Series X|S, Xbox One, and Windows 10 devices Online Safety tab or the Privacy tab.

Review the current settings and update all of the options as "Block", and then select Submit to save the changes.

Note: You must select Submit at the bottom of the page before leaving or switching to another tab. If you don't submit the changes before you move to the other tab, your changes won't be saved."

Then sign back in and update all of the options as "Allow" and "Everyone", and then select Submit to save the changes.

After signing out, sign in back into the Microsoft Store and Minecraft launcher, then check if you will be able to access the Minecraft multiplayer feature.

Thank you for your kindness and understanding! Please feel free to let me know if you need anything else.

Best Regards,
Darhyl

So the minecraft support just replies with a bot giving me steps to change the Xbox privacy settings but my xbox settings is already set to allowed