Can't change my Microsoft Privacy Settings

Hi! My name is Pam. I'm an Independent Advisor and I'll be glad to help you today.

Yes, if you can see your account as a member of the family here https://account.microsoft.com/family then only the organizer's email or the adult account can change your privacy settings.

Update: It's been fixed. I had to ask my mom to change my privacy settings in family settings.

This is because you're underage or used the wrong age when setting up the account, Unfortunately once an age is set it's permanent. While the system will let you change the age anytime, It only recognizes the age you used when you set up the account. This
is to prevent kids from just changing their ages to bypass things. You will need your parents help or you will have to send in an age change request form and see what they say.

in the following link shows you how to do it from pc and xbox https://privacy.microsoft.com/en-us/xbox-one-privacy-and-online-safety

If you can't get to the privacy settings of the account means that's a child account and if you don't follow the steps trough a Microsoft family you won't be able to change the privacy settings