cant change multiplayer game settings

I also cant leave my family group because I don't have the permissions to and I cant give myself permissions in settings

Hi hElPmEPsS! My name is Ricardo an independent advisor ready to help you with this situation!

You probably need to change your account privacy settings, so you allow to join multiplayer games and other settings, but child's account cant view their privacy settings an adult is required to add him to a Microsoft family here

https://account.microsoft.com/family/

After the adult account creates the family and adds the minor's account to his family In order for you to be able to play multiplayer, you must change the privacy settings of your account. It can be done here

https://account.xbox.com/settings

Sorry for the language the other day im still having the same problem with trying to save multiplayer settings on xbox.com when im on my xbox one on my internet people cant join my games but when i got my brother too sign in on my profile on his xbox one
on his internet and i signed in on his i could join the game it all works but i still couldn't change the multiplayer settings on xbox.com too allow so what is the issue im having????

on xbox 360 i could change my controller settings permanently for games that diddnt have the setting to change to southpaw. why cant i do this on the xbox1? or does every game have a controller setting? i was wanting to pre order fallout4 but i can only
play on southpaw, but i cant find the setting to change that on my xbox1 </3

i was able to figure it out, apparently my account is a child's account so that's the problem, but I should be able to fix it. thank you so much for your help

No worries man any time, If you have any other issues or concerns post them on the forums here and someone will assist you

Have a great day!