can somebody explain these new QOS Tagging settings

What is the exact model of your Urbanears headset?

Did it require some kind of adapter to work, instead of simply plugging it into the 3.5mm port on the controller (or the Xbox stereo headset adapter)?

I do not actually have it enabled for wired or WiFi. When I check my latency from my pc using connection benchmarking from my router it comes back as normal. Same if I use my Xbox to connect to my routers Web site and test it there it comes back normal.Only when I am doing a test on my console is when high latency occurs

I understand, my friend. If you don't want it enabled, you can disable it:

Press the Xbox button > Select Profile & system > Settings > General > Network settings > Advanced settings.

Let me know how it goes.

I use port 3074 Dns settings are set automatically. This issue started after QoS was introduced. I see other people are experiencing the same problem . I do not understand technology .Which is why I pay for a added service provided by my isp that handles my QoS features

i have been having latency issues with my xbox seemingly out of nowhere. started around a week or 2 ago.