Can 2 of my friends use my xbox account as there home xbox if I'm using a different one as...

Game sharing in different households is against the terms of use and can get you suspended or banned for doing it.

I have 2 Xbox ones in the house, with one of them being the home Xbox, the problem I am having is I can get the epic friends on the home Xbox ,but cannot get it to show up on the 2nd Xbox. my question is how can I get Epic Friends on both Xbox ones
??? Do I need 2 separate live accounts to get this ??

Hello, you can share accounts, but you need to have a different Microsoft / Xbox account on every Xbox. And a different Gamertag-but this is clear.

Every account has a home xbox.

My account can play my games anywhere if im signed in.

My Home Xbox EVERYONE can play my games whether I'm using that xbox or not.

He can't use the another persons content on 2 different xbox's.

Hypothetically if the dad owned the content, and was always signed in while the kid used it over there, and the other xbox was the dads home xbox. Then the kidd could play both.

Or better yet if, If i misunderstood and the kidds account has the game pass the kid could play anywhere, and one of the xbox's can play the kidds games without him.

Is that what you were asking?

You can use the xbox home setting to share xbox one games among different accounts: https://support.xbox.com/xbox-one/games/my-home-xbox

Well, I'm not actually using an xbox... I'm using a PC with an xbox account so I can cross play on different games with my xbox using friends... if that makes any sense.