Accidental report and agitation of fellow xbox member

Thank you. He said that he thought the guy was cheating in game. He sent a couple of messages between each of them. I have spoke to my kid but the other guy sent voice messages saying so much trouble etc. And thag he was gonna report my account so just wanted to check. And false reports gonna get me banned etc.

Unless he did something to violate the code of conduct, nothing would happen. Accidentally reporting someone wouldn't result in a ban.

How will the Xbox enforcement team know that I accidentally reported my friend?

Well, they won't know it was accidental...if the content you reported was violating the Xbox Live rules, then your friend will get Enforcement action, whether the reporting was accidental or not.

Hey, I'm not fighting. I just accidentally started the fight.

You have to earn your interwebs, if interwebs grew on trees there would be idiots run amok starting religious debates on youtube comments and starting threads for the sole purpose of agitating others...oh wait

Agitation and retaliation is what feeds the monster otherwise known as enforcement. Wouldn't it be great to have a simple systen where you block or mute agitators and never even have to worry about communicating, or being randomly matched with said person
or group ever again?

Nah, that would be too simple. Besides, the report button would be far too complicated for MS and Sony to remove. Besides, if they eliminated the report button, the monster would get pink slips and have to either go on welfair or actually work for a living.

Won't be long before they report and lock your threads OP, but whatever they do. Chin up!