4k streaming to pc or other 4k devices

Trust me when I tell you that my xbox has plenty of bandwidth for 4k streaming. Netflix will not stream 4k in the app unless the movie is actually marked for 4K. The app only displays HD as the option, not 4K like it does on any other device that I have
that supports 4k streaming. I do notice the difference when streaming Breaking Bad (which is a 4k serious on Netflix) on my xbox one via Netflix vs streaming it from the Netflix app on my smart 4k tv. The 4k TV smart app shows the correct 4k option on the
show and the picture quality is wayyy better then on the xbox Netflix app.

Desk with 2 monitors (One curved 27" monitor and the other is a 40" 4K tv), PC (connected to both the monitor and tv), Astro a50s (PC/XB1), elgato hd60s (for the random times I do try to stream), XB1X, Switch, and PS4 (all connected to the 4K tv).

The screen difference isn't that bad cause I'm usually playing on one and have a Twitch/Mixer stream or Netflix/Hulu/Crunchyroll up on the other.

As a side note my monitor is 1080p 144zh and my TV is 4K 60fps.

Neither console can run games at 4k. It will run 4k video streams through the pass through. But neither console has the intention of running video games at 4k nor should you expect it too. There is a reason the device is only 500$ and not 3500$

No, I don't have to. The projector automatically recognises 4K. There is no option to activate. I didn't have to for other devices like Apple TV 4K and Firestick 4K. They were automatically recognised with 4K HDR.

Am I seriously the only person who's had this problem? Would like to know how to fix this issue as it's frustrating having a 4K TV and an XBox One with 4K support and not be able to stream 4K videos that I have stored on my PC to my XBox One.