You can join multiplayer games option can't to save as allowed

Hi there Linn, my name is Gerardo, and I'm an Xbox player, just like you. I'll be happy to assist you with any questions or concerns you may have.

To allow multiplayer, you must do it from the following link:

https://account.xbox.com/settings

I recommend that you set the following options to "Allow" and save the changes:

* You can play with people who are not part of Xbox Live.
* You can create and join clubs.
* You can join multiplayer games.
* You can add friends.

I hope this helps and if you have further questions please let me know.

Kind regards,
Gerardo.

I can change all settings to block and submit and it saves but when I put them all back to allow, the joining multiplayer does not saves

Check your account's privacy settings, and make sure your account allows you to play multiplayer games, go to the link below.

https://account.xbox.com/en-us/Settings

Check the settings below.

In the privacy tab check that the options, "You can communicate outside of Xbox Live with voice & text" and Others can communicate with voice, text, or invites" are set to allow.

Also, check the Xbox One/Windows 10 Online Safety tab, and see if the ''You can join multiplayer games'' option is set to allow.

I'm Samy an independent advisor. Welcome to the Xbox community. How are you?

You can change your account privacy settings to allow multiplayer games via this link.

https://account.xbox.com/Settings

You have to activate this option

You can join multiplayer games

Play games with others in the Xbox Live online community. This does not enable communication.

"You cannot play online multiplayer because of how your Microsoft account is set up. Review and change your privacy settings at aka.ms/accountsettings."

This was breaking me. But with hours of searching and trying different things this was the key:

To join a Realm in the first place, the xbox setting You can create and join Clubs must be set to Allow.

So even though I had allowed my child to join multiplayer games, they still could not join my Realm.

You can adjust Join Clubs on the Xbox One console or in a browser.

Xbox One Console:

Login as the parent/adult in the family

Account > Family Settings

Choose child's profile

Privacy & online safety

Xbox Live privacy

View details & customise

Friends & clubs

You can create and join clubs: ALLOW

Communication & multiplayer

You can join multiplayer games: Allow

You can play with people outside of Xbox Live: Allow

In a Browser:

https://account.xbox.com/Profile & sign in

Privacy Settings

Choose the Child Account you wish to amend

Choose Xbox One/Windows 10 Online Safety

Adjust the following:

You can play with people outside of Xbox Live: Allow (not sure if this is needed, but as Minecraft is cross-platform I adjusted this)

You can create and join clubs: ALLOW

You can join multiplayer games: Allow