Xbox Strict Discord server

I got banned from the Xbox Discord server and even Halo since the Admins and Mods are toxic as hell, tehy are very very strict and are selfish as hell, what happened is that one Xbox admin was arguing with me about my opinion in gaming, then she said I was acting like I owned the server, I swear I did'nt do so, i never had any issue with any of the servers and Microsoft server as well, but like obviously I would get Irritated and called her Crazy for thinking that, i know this one was my mistake but the thing is the server admins and mods are toxic as hell and they should be on the lineant side, they just want a reason to ban. This issue is not only with me but with many others, i approached her on DM and apologised to her (even though it was not my mistake) she blocked me then I approached her in the halo server [Which was completely my mistake i agree that] and she banned me even there, this is'nt good, strict actions are taken for even the smallest of stuff for others banned in the server, it was my mistake at the same time it was the admins mistake for being toxic. If they are healthy with us they we will be healthy. Hope some action is taken, Thank you

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