xbox live party keep discounting on gta5

i did that this morning and it still doing the same thing it only started after the update

Try performing a hard reset EXACTLY like this. Hold the power button on the console for 8 seconds or until the power shuts down completely.
Unplug the power cord from the back of the console for 5 minutes.
Plug the power cord back in and restart the console.

Try restarting performing a power cycle on your console:

1. Turn off your console by holding the Xboxbutton on the front of the console for approximately 10 seconds. The console will turn off.

1. Turn your console back on by pressing the Xbox button on the console or the Xboxbutton on your controller.
   
   Note If you don't see the green boot-up animation when the console restarts, repeat these steps. Make sure that you hold the power button until the console completely shuts down.

Important If your console is in Instant-On power mode, the above steps will shut the console completely off. Instant-On mode, or the ability to turn on your console by saying "Xbox on," won't be enabled until you restart the console.

My $60 for Live, majority goes to cross party chat and voice message support. Then the occasional gold member discounts. My $50 for Plus goes to discounts and rewards. When PSN gets party chat and voice message support is the day I question, what am I really
paying for on Xbox Live?

Thats a good point, Brandiesel! Sales do come up sometimes on retailer sites for Xbox Live Gold time cards.

Keep in mind Gold doesnt just get you online features, it also gets you free games every month and discounts on the Xbox Store. Sometimes even discounts on discounts!