Xbox Family Safety Bug: No Way to Manually Approve Multiplayer Access w/o Disabling...

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  1. /u/JacenHorn
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    Xbox Family Safety Bug: No Way to Manually Approve Multiplayer Access w/o Disabling...


    Please read, it affects any parent using Xbox Family Safety.

    I discovered a flaw in how Xbox handles Content Restrictions for child accounts, prompting a long support call with Microsoft (shoutout to Jared, who was fantastic).

    We were trying to let one of our kids play online multiplayer in Ultimate Chicken Horse (rated 'E') on our Series X. All profiles are part of our Microsoft Family, signed into our Home Xbox. The child’s profile:

    • Has correct DOB
    • Has both multiplayer and cross-network play set to “Allow”
    • Has age-appropriate content filters (set to 14yo)
    • Can play the game offline just fine

    But they cannot access multiplayer — and the system never triggered a parent approval request. Other siblings (even younger ones) can play online, despite settings being identical.

    Here’s the kicker: - The Xbox Family app shows “Existing Approvals” but has no way to add a new one. - The Microsoft Family website doesn’t offer any way to approve Xbox game titles — only web filters. - After attempting multiple fixes (removing the profile, clearing cache, etc.), the only "solution" was to change the child’s DOB to an older age.

    That unlocked multiplayer, but now we lose parental control and content reporting for that child’s account.

    This is a broken system: - No manual override for game title approvals - No approval prompt for multiplayer access - No visibility into what’s being blocked

    Microsoft needs to fix this. Parents should be able to elect to manually approve specific games, especially when they’re rated 'E', and multiplayer is allowed.

    I've sent feedback to Microsoft (haven't yet found a direct email), as my ticket was closed out after the "solution".

    I've also emailed Clever Endeavor, copied in part below:


    To be clear, I do not think this is directly attributable to your game. There is one component (that I know of) that could be a Dev choice; mainly though I think your team should be made aware of this issue.

    The only possible aspect I can think of that might come from the UCH side is that the age threshold —for which the game would trigger notifying a MS Family Manager— is set below [our] 14 year-old designation for content approval. |OR| That the game is internally set to prohibit online multi-player for anybody designated below a certain age (say 18, i.e.).
    ​

    Update: The following day, the younger child (who previously had access) is now receiving the same blocking error [from the in-game UI] to the online portion of that game.

    If you’ve run into this, please share or up vote to gain attention.

    -Jacen

    *This was drafted by Microsoft's Copilot after I provided it my notes taken during troubleshooting, then edited by me.

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  2. NoteVation Win User

    xbox

    HI arjan, it seems like it is a problem with your account being restricted with 'Parental Control', which sees your account as a child account and prevent any use of purchasing and downloading games that relate to violence

    You may refer to this article, it is the same way to disable the family account option: https://support.xbox.com/en-GB/help/Family-Online-Safety/child-accounts/approve-child-purchases

    Best,

    Note
  3. MoeZArts Win User

    Passkey and kids

  4. Kathy A. Win User

    Minecraft- tryb wieloosobowy nieaktywny \Minecraft - multiplayer is inactive

    Witam Julia Łubek,

    Witamy na forum społeczności Xbox. Dziękujemy za podzielenie się z nami swoimi obawami i mamy nadzieję, że wszystko jest w porządku.



    Rozumiemy, że jesteś podekscytowany grą w Minecrafta i nie możesz tego zrobić z powodu komunikatu o błędzie dotyczącego wyłączenia trybu wieloosobowego. Sprawdźmy to razem i załatwmy to w odpowiednim czasie.



    W oparciu o komunikat o błędzie ma to związek z Twoim kontem Microsoft, musisz włączyć tryb wieloosobowy w prywatności swojego konta. W takim przypadku możesz zapoznać się z krokami opisanymi w tych artykułach pomocy technicznej (UWAGA: w przypadku kont podrzędnych wymagana będzie zgoda rodziców).

    [Proszę pamiętać, że ten temat jest napisany w języku angielskim; tłumaczenia mogą być wymagane dla jasności.]

    Czekamy na Twoją odpowiedź. Uprzejmie daj nam znać, jeśli wystąpią jakiekolwiek nieporozumienia lub wyjaśnienia dotyczące naszego opisu, wysyłając nam odpowiedź.



    Z poważaniem,



    Moderator forum Xbox

    Społeczność Microsoft

    ---------------------------------------

    Hello Julia Łubek,

    Welcome to Xbox Community Forum. Thank you for sharing your concern with us today and we hope that all is well.

    We understand that you are excited in playing Minecraft and is unable to because of the error message about Multiplayer mode being disabled. Let us check on this together and sort this out in timely manner.

    Based on the error message this has something to do with your Microsoft account, you will need to enable Multiplayer in your account's privacy. In that case, you may refer to the steps in these support articles - (NOTE: This will need your parents approval for child accounts).

    [Please keep in mind that this topic is written in English; translations may be required for clarity.]

    We look forward to your response. Kindly let us know, if there is any misunderstanding or clarifications of our description by sending us a reply.



    Sincerely,



    Xbox Forum Moderator

    Microsoft Community
  5. Tadeu dailson Win User

    Why can't play gta 5 online even though I have xbox game pass core

    If the previous steps do not work, check these steps.

    Are you able to successfully access online multiplayer/matchmaking in any other game? It's possibly your online safety and privacy settings on your account - you need to have all online multiplayer options enabled/enabled. Refer to: https://support.xbox.com/help/family-online-saf... If you can't access your privacy settings: https://support.xbox.com/help/family-online-saf... If the specific error only occurs in GTA 5, you would need to contact Rockstar Support: https://support.rockstargames.com/categories/20... Here to help.
  6. Christyna64 Win User

    Adding money to a microsoft account.

    Even with your child having their own funds and bank, it's important to think about them making purchases that can cause their funds and bank accounts to be overdrawn. I would suggest reading through the Family and Online Saftey on Xbox Support to make an
    informed decision.

    Family and Onine Safety - Child Accounts

    https://beta.support.xbox.com/help/family-online-safety/browse

    Approve a childs purchase

    https://beta.support.xbox.com/help/family-online-safety/child-accounts/approve-child-purchases

    Prevent unauthorized purchases

    https://beta.support.xbox.com/help/...child-accounts/prevent-unauthorized-purchases
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