Xbox controller does not connect wired to pc

No that is not possible to connect a controller to your PC through your console. You will need the Xbox 360 wireless USB receiver for windows or buy a pure wired USB xbox 360 controller (microsoft and 3rd party ones available and all will work).

The play and charge USB cable for xbox 360 controllers does not make a wireless controller wired as it only transfers power and not data.

You could buy an xbox one wireless controller that is newer and has bluetooth and connect it to your PC directly as seen on this page: :

https://support.xbox.com/en-US/xbox-on-windows/accessories/connect-xbox-one-controller-to-pc

You can also use an xbox one wireless controller of any type (with or without bluetooth) with a Micro USB cable on a PC as well. THAT wire does make the xbox one wireless controller act as a wired controller while connected via Micro USB.

the controller supports bluetooth connection to pc and mobile devices but does not support audio over bluetooth in any way shape or form (does support audio passthrough when wired to pc)

the headset should work though when the controller is wirelessly connected to the xbox one.

have you resynced the controller to the xbox one.

Oh, no. I mean on your Xbox Console, to try downgrading the firmware.

If that doesn't work, could you tell me if this is happening with that specific controller?
Are you able to test another controller?

ok let me just copy paste this because you did not see it the first time

" ok, did and did, conecting it to my laptop, using a different cable, and using any other USB port does not help,

the result is the same , controller vibrates when plugged in, flashes then turns off

does not appear anywhere

also the laptop is on win11 while the PC is on win 10"

pressing "check controler firmwere" gives me " soemething went wrong your controller is up to date" not the option to reset it