why not add player to player multiplayer without lan to minecraft java?

i dont wanna play on servers (private [me and freind only])

i'm not certain why you would necessarily have to

Make sure you are doing the following:

Multiplayer Options

Minecraft (Bedrock) supports the following multiplayer options:

• Locally hosted multiplayer world via LAN or Xbox Live
• Realms
• Servers (unofficial, third party server software)

Locally hosted multiplayer world via LAN or Xbox Live

Any world can be a locally hosted multiplayer world, and accessible to other
Minecraft players.

To start, create new world or load an existing one. Then, select World Settings (pencil icon) →
Multiplayer → Multiplayer Game. If all players are on the same local network, you may also toggle on
Visible to LAN Players.

Other player(s) can join the world by navigating to the Friends tab and selecting the world.

Hello Petrus Totus,

Welcome to Xbox Community Forum. I can see that you are having difficulties logging i with you Minecraft account. Let me see how I can assist you with this concern.

Meanwhile, I'd like to gather few information about the issue.

Can you share a screenshot of the page where you are trying to login?

Try to sign in using your account through

Log in | Minecraft

This should show the games you owned once sign in.

I would also suggest that you uninstall and reinstall the launcher using this link: Download Minecraft & Server Software | Minecraft

Please see this article on how to play with Multiplayer on Java Editioon Minecraft

How to Play Minecraft: Java Edition Multiplayer – Home

Playing on a Local Area Network (LAN)

This requires opening your home or local area network (LAN) to others who are also connected to that network. Here is how to connect for Minecraft: Java Edition.

1. Choose a host computer. This computer should be fast enough to play Minecraft, while running a server for other players as well.
   
2. Launch the game and click Single Player.
   
3. Create a new world or open an existing one.
   
4. Inside that world, press the Esc key, and click Open to LAN.
   
5. Choose a game mode to set for the other players.
   Tip: Survival is the default Minecraft mode, including life points and hunger. Creative mode allows you to fly and place an infinite number of blocks. Adventure mode is like Survival mode, but players cannot place or destroy blocks. You can also choose whether to turn cheats (commands) off or on.
   
6. Click Start LAN World, and you'll see a message that a local game has been hosted. Other players on the same network who wish to join can now start their game, select Multiplayer, and their computers should automatically detect the game.
   

Playing on an Online Server

This requires locating and connecting to the IP address of a multiplayer server. Additionally, Minecraft Java: Edition does not require an Xbox Live subscription.

A multiplayer server allows two or more players to play Minecraft together. You can either download the server file needed to set up your own server from Minecraft.net or connect to another person’s server. Note: To access a server you need to run the same version of Minecraft as the server. For more information, see Changing game version.

Connect to another player’s server:

1. Log into Minecraft and click Multiplayer on the main menu,
   
2. Click Add Server and enter the IP or web address of the server.
   Tip: If you don't know the IP of a server, thousands of public servers can be located by doing a web search for something that suits your style of play.
   

Let us know the result and we will get back to you as soon as we can. We may recommend further troubleshooting steps once we have received your answers to the above questions.

If you cannot add friends or join their world, follow these steps to fix the issue:

Both Java and Bedrock players can experience trouble adding people or joining their world due to their Microsoft account privacy settings.

You may be having trouble joining other people's world because of your NAT status (This depends on your network configuration, but it can be fixed)

Your friend may not have his world set as "Open to LAN" or if he is hosting the server on a PC, his ports are maybe closed which is why you can't join.

Your firewall might be preventing you from joining the world



For instructions on how to fix such issues, visit this official Minecraft article:

[BEDROCK] https://help.minecraft.net/hc/en-us/articles/44...

[JAVA] https://help.minecraft.net/hc/en-us/articles/36...